Thursday, July 30, 2015

'' materialistic love ''

gara-gara instagram semua gila nak relationship goals bagai..
gara-gara tengok drama adaptasi novel semua gila nak suami handsome kaya gila nak mati macam dalam citer rindu awak 200 peratus. 
gara-gara instagram facebook twitter bagai semua benda sweet bagi iphone buat surprise party kat kafe hipster pakwe buat kat makwe terus viral and all girls went crazy adoring those couples. 


Then they started to ask for their 'man' to do the same thing like what those famous-sweet couples did. Little do they know, those sweet things that everybody went head over heals cost money. Let me emphasis here, money. Nak beli belon yang bentuk love guna hydrogen gas satu tu pun dah rm5 ke atas. Nak makan kat kafe hipster sweet lovey dowey tu pun paling tidak rm50 sekali makan untuk dua orang. Even satu album gambar tu pun dah cost berapa. 

And because of those relationship goals, there are other relationships ruined. 
Dear girls, if you accept someone to love, love him not his money. Your man some are not rich like those men who can make that kind of surprises. You should be there for him, support him to build up his career and his financial maybe both of you should work hard to be rich together. I felt pity to some men who cannot shower their beloved women with expensive things all they have is sincere love. But to their women, it is not enough. Since when their love turned into materialistic love?

Tak kesian ke awak duk paksa dia beli hadiah mahal-mahal sedangkan dia tengah belajar ( tu pun pinjam duit ptptn), tak kesian ke awak duk paksa dia beli hadiah mahal-mahal sedangkan motor kapcai dia pun belum habis bayar sepenuhnya? 

Sometimes, there are more to love. You should accept your man flaws and the way he is instead of nak kejar relationship goals bagai. Tak de yang nak buat relationship goals nak berjaya sama-sama dapat kerja bagus sama-sama then slowly bina career bersama? Kenapa nak tiru orang, mereka tu kaya raya of course la mampu. to them, money is nothing.. 

Is there anyone who would appreciate a simple bracelet rm5 bought from jonker walk that your man buy for you? I will. I will appreciate his effort to show his love towards me, even though it is just a rm5 bracelet. It is not as expensive like solvis et titus but never mind. There are other things that you need to appreciate. sometimes, beautiful things should not be measured by how expensive they are but how meaningful it is to us.

I don't mind riding on a bicycle with someone and have an ice cream from the vendor instead of having expensive ice cream. I would rather jump with joy even I just receive a dream catcher that cost rm10 instead of having expensive perfume. Kalau dah itu je yang dia mampu dan kita mampu, why not we just accept and appreciate what our man did to us. aT Least tu semua memory.

appreciate little things in life, sometimes it is not about how much does it cost.

okay then, tu untuk girls yang gilakan relationship goals sangat tu. Let's talk about men. Mereka pun boleh tahan jugak merepek nya. 

Nak girls yang cantik, putih flawless padahal diri sendiri gelap kalah mamat negro. ;) ;) Nak gadis yang body perfect macam fazura sedangkan diri sendiri keding macam lidi penyapu langsung tak sado. Dapat makwe tak cantik asyik compare je dengan other girls. bullshit nak yang perfect sedangkan diri sendiri tak sempurna. Nak dapat perempuan cantik ni make sure you have lots of money sebab maintenance dia tinggi tahu tak, be prepare to support her designer bags, her make up, her jewelry . Can you afford it dear man? 

kesian girls yang gelap, dan gemuk selalu kena kutuk dengan species manusia bernama lelaki ni. Until they started to consume whitening collagen, aurawhite, aura this and that just nak putih flawless tanpa mereka sedar bahayanya bahan-bahan kimia yang ada dalam produk whitening tu. Sebab tu lah ramai yang kena kanser pada usia yang muda sekarang. Everything is merely because of beauty. Definition of beauty kena putih flawless kening cukur terbentuk rapi, body slim melim. Then by the age of 30+ and 40+ dah mula kena penyakit yang pelik-pelik and merbahaya.  

Kita yang create definisi cantik macam tu, sedangkan semua wanita tu cantik. 

Dan ramai yang lupa pada kebaikan hati budi.


kebaikan hati budi seorang lelaki yang ikhlas towards you.
kebaikan hati budi seorang wanita yang ikhlas ada untuk you. 

dan nampaknya materialistic love won. Nobody look at the beauty of heart. Nobody look at their inner beauty. Everybody measure everything by money and beauty. 


materialistic love, some does not apply to them. I still believe there are wonderful couples who enjoy their silent and simple relationship.


 She is a girl who support her man , and he is a man who work hard just to prepare good future for his girl and he knows he have her to support him. She is a simple girl who accept her man flaws yet willing to protect and accept him. He is a simple, he is not rich but he works very hard and he loves her very much. There is nothing much he can give except his actions that shows he appreciate her even through cheap necklace. He remembers every single things about her, about her flaws about her birthday , her favourite colour, etc... 

To me, they are wonderful. 

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