if you love someone, don't be over protective. Give them space to breath. Give them space to enjoy their life, give them space to make mistakes and learn from their mistakes.
too much love can kill.
being over protective can kill as well.
Because I know exactly how it feels to live in this situation. It kills me slowly from inside. I am suffocate for some freedom to live. I wish to run from those people, going somewhere far and never return.
And being over protective and loving too much actually caused me to be lonely and I long for a freedom. It has become a very important word in my life.
so if you love someone, don't hold them too tight. They might break into pieces.